In "The Inner Work of Decluttering," the author explores the emotional challenges of letting go of belongings tied to memory and identity. Focusing on compassion, they highlight that decluttering is a personal journey that requires time and reflection. Emphasizing an abundance mindset, they share how understanding one's evolving identity can ease the process. Practical tips encourage gentle, manageable steps toward decluttering while honoring one’s unique emotional experiences.
Houses and homes
Part One: The Inner Work of Decluttering
This reflection addresses the often-overlooked emotional complexities of decluttering and minimalism, emphasizing that the process can evoke feelings of identity and grief. Instead of advocating for ruthless discarding, it suggests a compassionate approach to letting go. The author shares personal insights on valuing beloved items, exploring sentimental attachments, and recognizing the deeper meanings behind possessions. By taking time and allowing for reflection and personal readiness, individuals can navigate the decluttering journey in a way that ultimately aligns with their values and fosters joy.
Storm Amy Passed Over Us
Morag documents her anxiety and experiences while Derek worked on constructing his office amidst the approaching Storm Amy. Despite initial good weather, high winds caused a portion of the roof to blow off. After assessing damage the next morning, Derek worked to secure it, ultimately succeeding as the storm subsided.
Is the Office Building Finished?
Derek is currently building a new office while managing a global business with clients and employees across various time zones. He balances his work between office routines and construction, using flexible hours to juggle responsibilities. Although the office structure is up, it isn't ready for use due to weather-related delays. The couple has decided against further major renovations, allowing them to focus on completing essential tasks and enjoying life together.
1969
What major historical events do you remember? Neil Armstrong landed on the moon (major world event) A major earthquake ripped through the Cape and shook our walls and windows so that things fell and cracks appeared while my mother and I and 5 kittens retreated to our car My father (Welwood Armstrong) died just before … Continue reading 1969
The Challenges of Moving Countries, part 1
The author reflects on the chaotic experience of relocating from South Africa to Scotland, describing it as a "guddle," a Scottish term for confusion. While embracing this chaos, she acknowledges the stress of navigating a new life, learning unfamiliar systems, and sacrificing beloved art supplies. Despite this turmoil stifling her creativity, she found solace in knitting, which provided moments of expressiveness. Ultimately, the journey demands resilience and adaptability, illustrating the complexities of starting anew in later life.
How Do Our Lives Impact Others?
On September 30, 2021, Morag celebrated Derek's British Citizenship and their move to Scotland, which took longer than expected. Reflecting on their transformative journey, Morag emphasizes the importance of savoring moments and living fully despite global challenges. She encourages focusing on joy and love rather than darkness, inspiring readers to choose positivity and light amidst adversity.
Derek Works on Groundworks for his New Office.
In this post I share what Derek has been up to while I've been gardening, painting and organising the household. I also want to point out that Derek is not retired; he has a business to run. He's very lucky to have a daughter who works with him. So as he's not retired he has … Continue reading Derek Works on Groundworks for his New Office.
Strawberry Patch and Other Things I Have Been Up to
When we bought our house I was delighted to find a ready made strawberry patch. It was summer time and so I enjoyed its fruits immediately. It's at the bottom of my garden closest to the river which also means I walk down the hill, as my garden is terraced. I am grateful for the … Continue reading Strawberry Patch and Other Things I Have Been Up to
Moments in Nature
While cat-sitting for family, I've embraced creativity through knitting and up-cycling projects, inspired by nature. My poem reflects on the lives of the bee, bird, and cat, highlighting how each embodies aspects of my own journey and connections. Moments of rest and observation bring joy.