This post introduces a new series exploring psychology's healing role. The author's personal journey into the field began amid the challenges of parenting teenagers, fueled by curiosity and a desire for understanding human behavior. She reflects on societal stigma surrounding therapy and discusses varying perspectives on its necessity. As her studies progressed, she realized not everyone seeks therapy, yet highlights its profound impact on personal growth and relationships. Future posts will delve deeper into therapeutic connections.
Life after Kids
Is the Office Building Finished?
Derek is currently building a new office while managing a global business with clients and employees across various time zones. He balances his work between office routines and construction, using flexible hours to juggle responsibilities. Although the office structure is up, it isn't ready for use due to weather-related delays. The couple has decided against further major renovations, allowing them to focus on completing essential tasks and enjoying life together.
Derek Works on Groundworks for his New Office.
In this post I share what Derek has been up to while I've been gardening, painting and organising the household. I also want to point out that Derek is not retired; he has a business to run. He's very lucky to have a daughter who works with him. So as he's not retired he has … Continue reading Derek Works on Groundworks for his New Office.
Strawberry Patch and Other Things I Have Been Up to
When we bought our house I was delighted to find a ready made strawberry patch. It was summer time and so I enjoyed its fruits immediately. It's at the bottom of my garden closest to the river which also means I walk down the hill, as my garden is terraced. I am grateful for the … Continue reading Strawberry Patch and Other Things I Have Been Up to
Thoughts About Love
The post explores the complexities of love, emphasizing that while various types of love exist, the term can often be diluted in English. It highlights love as a value requiring mutual commitment and balance. Healthy love mirrors a harmonious garden where individuals support each other without selfishness, fostering a thriving community.
Some People Do, Some People Don’t – It Just Depends
I was asked a question: do I and my readers tend to carve out time for their creativity. The short answer is some people do carve out time regularly for creativity and some people don’t. I myself have struggled with carving out time consistently over the years and it is only as I have worked … Continue reading Some People Do, Some People Don’t – It Just Depends
Glimmers
The post reflects on finding hope amid life's challenges. It contrasts glimmers, moments of joy and support, with triggers that evoke negative emotions. Emphasizing the importance of recognizing these glimmers, the author encourages resilience and gratitude in difficult times.
Is Journaling a Waste of Time? My Journaling Journey: Part three
Journaling can be seen as a waste of time due to pressing life events, perceived lack of benefits, or uncertainty in how to start. However, meaningful reflection and clearer priorities can improve decision-making and personal growth through journaling practices.
Missing Those Moments
I wish I could speak to you right now I wish that you were right here I have got so much I want to say. It would be a good conversation. So much to catch up on. It’s a natural report, Listening and talking. And it's a voice internalized, Listen-Encourage, listen-Teach, Listen-Challenge, listen-Just-laugh. So stay … Continue reading Missing Those Moments
Living with Renovation
As you know we bought our house over a year ago and we have been renovating it. It was a fine house before but being South African in Scotland, feeling the cold a bit more than most here, Derek decided to put underfloor heating in the bedrooms as well as the lounge. He did it … Continue reading Living with Renovation
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