The reflection encourages individuals to explore their hidden strengths, often masked by shame or fear of judgment. Carl Jung's concept of the "shadow" highlights how these traits, considered weaknesses, can actually be sources of power. Embracing these qualities leads to personal integration and fulfillment. The narrative suggests a guided exercise of visualization to discover and honor these hidden aspects, which can enhance one's life immensely when acknowledged and utilized.
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A Review of Last Year, 2025
In her reflection on the past year, Morag Noffke shares insights about the pressures of social media and the importance of introspection over resolutions. She highlights her fitness journey, gratitude for newfound friendships, and small victories in a new environment. Noffke encourages viewing struggles as challenges and emphasizes self-care practices while expressing hopes for a fulfilling year ahead in 2026.
May You Be Blessed.
We have two weeks till the end of the year. The Family are coming to visit for Christmas and Derek takes some well deserved leave. I'm going to be somewhat distracted by living in the moment and savouring it all with family and friends. I wish you all a wonderful holiday season, whether it's Chanukah … Continue reading May You Be Blessed.
Establishing Expectations & Rapport with A Therapist
The post discusses the author's second therapy session, emphasizing the importance of establishing needs and expectations early in the therapeutic relationship. The author shares personal insights into their requirements for a therapist, the impact of trust, and the significance of a supportive environment. This session focused on preparing for deeper discussions on past struggles, creativity challenges, and family dynamics, laying a foundation for future work.
The Healing Space Between Two People
The narrative reflects on an individual's initial therapy session and the profound impact of being listened to. The author expresses how the therapeutic relationship, characterized by unconditional positive regard, facilitated healing and self-acceptance. This connection began to reshape their self-perception and interactions with others, emphasizing the importance of empathy in healing.
Before the Healing Begins: My Journey into Psychology, Growth, and Self-Awareness
This post introduces a new series exploring psychology's healing role. The author's personal journey into the field began amid the challenges of parenting teenagers, fueled by curiosity and a desire for understanding human behavior. She reflects on societal stigma surrounding therapy and discusses varying perspectives on its necessity. As her studies progressed, she realized not everyone seeks therapy, yet highlights its profound impact on personal growth and relationships. Future posts will delve deeper into therapeutic connections.
Wedding Anniversary Month, poem from 2020
My Love 22 April 2020My love,He gets better with ageMy love she’s a magnificent communicatorMy love cares every momentOur love is OneSupport and Freedom weaving their wayInto a stronger container of space for all needs.Our love is continuous so long as we nurturer it.Our love expands into the freedom that we give it.Our love never … Continue reading Wedding Anniversary Month, poem from 2020
1969
What major historical events do you remember? Neil Armstrong landed on the moon (major world event) A major earthquake ripped through the Cape and shook our walls and windows so that things fell and cracks appeared while my mother and I and 5 kittens retreated to our car My father (Welwood Armstrong) died just before … Continue reading 1969
How Do Our Lives Impact Others?
On September 30, 2021, Morag celebrated Derek's British Citizenship and their move to Scotland, which took longer than expected. Reflecting on their transformative journey, Morag emphasizes the importance of savoring moments and living fully despite global challenges. She encourages focusing on joy and love rather than darkness, inspiring readers to choose positivity and light amidst adversity.
Thoughts About Love
The post explores the complexities of love, emphasizing that while various types of love exist, the term can often be diluted in English. It highlights love as a value requiring mutual commitment and balance. Healthy love mirrors a harmonious garden where individuals support each other without selfishness, fostering a thriving community.
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