We have two weeks till the end of the year. The Family are coming to visit for Christmas and Derek takes some well deserved leave. I'm going to be somewhat distracted by living in the moment and savouring it all with family and friends. I wish you all a wonderful holiday season, whether it's Chanukah … Continue reading May You Be Blessed.
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Establishing Expectations & Rapport with A Therapist
The post discusses the author's second therapy session, emphasizing the importance of establishing needs and expectations early in the therapeutic relationship. The author shares personal insights into their requirements for a therapist, the impact of trust, and the significance of a supportive environment. This session focused on preparing for deeper discussions on past struggles, creativity challenges, and family dynamics, laying a foundation for future work.
1969
What major historical events do you remember? Neil Armstrong landed on the moon (major world event) A major earthquake ripped through the Cape and shook our walls and windows so that things fell and cracks appeared while my mother and I and 5 kittens retreated to our car My father (Welwood Armstrong) died just before … Continue reading 1969
The Challenges of Moving Countries, part 1
The author reflects on the chaotic experience of relocating from South Africa to Scotland, describing it as a "guddle," a Scottish term for confusion. While embracing this chaos, she acknowledges the stress of navigating a new life, learning unfamiliar systems, and sacrificing beloved art supplies. Despite this turmoil stifling her creativity, she found solace in knitting, which provided moments of expressiveness. Ultimately, the journey demands resilience and adaptability, illustrating the complexities of starting anew in later life.
Thoughts About Love
The post explores the complexities of love, emphasizing that while various types of love exist, the term can often be diluted in English. It highlights love as a value requiring mutual commitment and balance. Healthy love mirrors a harmonious garden where individuals support each other without selfishness, fostering a thriving community.
Moments in Nature
While cat-sitting for family, I've embraced creativity through knitting and up-cycling projects, inspired by nature. My poem reflects on the lives of the bee, bird, and cat, highlighting how each embodies aspects of my own journey and connections. Moments of rest and observation bring joy.
The Scream
The content explores the impact of suppressed emotions on individuals, particularly addressing the inner child's struggle to express feelings due to societal expectations. It discusses personal experiences of alexithymia, trauma, and the journey toward emotional expression through art and writing.
Growth: Butterfly cycles
Life's challenges foster growth through experiences, reflection, and connection with others.
Everything that happens…
Everything that happens to you has the potential to deepen you. It brings to birth within you new territories of the heart John O' Donohue A lot has happened in my life and I am sure a lot has happened in yours too. New territories of the heart, I suspect, have been born. Wouldn't it … Continue reading Everything that happens…
On this day…
On this day I was born. In some ways there's nothing very special about being born and having a birth day. We all have ONE. It comes around once a year. It kind of just happens whether we like it or not. I think the most special is the ONE that gave birth to us, … Continue reading On this day…
Morag Noffke 