In the past, the author viewed friendships as separate from other relationships, perceiving them as burdens. However, their perspective has evolved to embrace all individuals as part of a vibrant community, likening it to a diverse garden. Each person, like plants, holds unique value, contributing to the synergy of social interactions. The author emphasizes the importance of collaboration, kindness, and connection, advocating for community growth and effective relationships that can address shared challenges while respecting individual roles.
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Noffke’s Home Building News
Derek returned home exhausted after working late to put a temporary roof on the guest room, ensuring it was waterproof for upcoming rains. They had been juggling two projects: fixing a broken fence and constructing the guest room. With family help, they progressed despite challenging weather. While the walls still need finishing touches before guests arrive in June, Morag remains optimistic about completing the work in time.
A Puppy in Our Extended Family
The author explains their recent absence due to helping their daughter and son-in-law with a new puppy, emphasizing the commitment to training and care. They also mention supporting their family during a trip and look forward to returning soon.
Quality: Health, Happiness and Longevity – Sustained by Deep Connection.
Personally, I don’t think it matters how long we live — although it would be nice to live a long, meaningful and active life right up until the end. I know that sounds a little morbid, but we’re not discussing death today. What I do think matters is the quality of our lives while we … Continue reading Quality: Health, Happiness and Longevity – Sustained by Deep Connection.
May You Be Blessed.
We have two weeks till the end of the year. The Family are coming to visit for Christmas and Derek takes some well deserved leave. I'm going to be somewhat distracted by living in the moment and savouring it all with family and friends. I wish you all a wonderful holiday season, whether it's Chanukah … Continue reading May You Be Blessed.
Establishing Expectations & Rapport with A Therapist
The post discusses the author's second therapy session, emphasizing the importance of establishing needs and expectations early in the therapeutic relationship. The author shares personal insights into their requirements for a therapist, the impact of trust, and the significance of a supportive environment. This session focused on preparing for deeper discussions on past struggles, creativity challenges, and family dynamics, laying a foundation for future work.
1969
What major historical events do you remember? Neil Armstrong landed on the moon (major world event) A major earthquake ripped through the Cape and shook our walls and windows so that things fell and cracks appeared while my mother and I and 5 kittens retreated to our car My father (Welwood Armstrong) died just before … Continue reading 1969
The Challenges of Moving Countries, part 1
The author reflects on the chaotic experience of relocating from South Africa to Scotland, describing it as a "guddle," a Scottish term for confusion. While embracing this chaos, she acknowledges the stress of navigating a new life, learning unfamiliar systems, and sacrificing beloved art supplies. Despite this turmoil stifling her creativity, she found solace in knitting, which provided moments of expressiveness. Ultimately, the journey demands resilience and adaptability, illustrating the complexities of starting anew in later life.
Thoughts About Love
The post explores the complexities of love, emphasizing that while various types of love exist, the term can often be diluted in English. It highlights love as a value requiring mutual commitment and balance. Healthy love mirrors a harmonious garden where individuals support each other without selfishness, fostering a thriving community.
Moments in Nature
While cat-sitting for family, I've embraced creativity through knitting and up-cycling projects, inspired by nature. My poem reflects on the lives of the bee, bird, and cat, highlighting how each embodies aspects of my own journey and connections. Moments of rest and observation bring joy.
Morag Noffke 